{"id":583,"date":"2026-06-13T14:39:14","date_gmt":"2026-06-13T14:39:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/commercialrelocationpros.com\/?p=583"},"modified":"2026-06-13T14:39:14","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T14:39:14","slug":"the-beauty-of-doing-nothing-together","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/commercialrelocationpros.com\/?p=583","title":{"rendered":"The Beauty of Doing Nothing Together"},"content":{"rendered":"<section>\n<p><small><em>This is an edition of The Wonder Reader, a newsletter in which our editors recommend a set of stories to spark your curiosity and fill you with delight. Sign up here to get it every Saturday morning.<\/em><\/small><\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/commercialrelocationpros.com\/?p=581\">The Encounter<\/a><\/p>\n<p>There are times you meet friends for a long-planned dinner. And then there are times you invite them over just to hang out while you fold laundry. As I\u2019ve gotten older, I\u2019ve come to appreciate the second option.<\/p>\n<p>Friendship in adulthood can feel like a feat of organization. We meet for brunch, make dinner reservations weeks in advance, or spend days trying to find a time that works for everyone. The activity itself becomes the point. Julie Beck recently wrote about the other kind of social life: one built around doing nothing in particular. Maybe you\u2019re sitting on a couch while a friend answers emails, talking while someone packs for a trip, helping prep dinner. What you\u2019re doing hardly matters. What matters is inviting someone into the ordinary parts of your life instead of waiting for an occasion that feels worthy of an invitation.<\/p>\n<p>Today\u2019s newsletter explores how some of the best time we spend with other people happens not when we\u2019ve planned something special, but when we simply make room for them in the middle of an ordinary day.<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/commercialrelocationpros.com\/?p=579\">A Canvas as Big as the Country<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>On Togetherness<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fold Laundry With Me!<\/p>\n<p><i>By Julie Beck<\/i><\/p>\n<div>\n<blockquote>\n<p>The case for a lower-stakes social life<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p>Read the article.<\/p>\n<p>Americans Need to Party More<\/p>\n<p><i>By Ellen Cushing<\/i><\/p>\n<div>\n<blockquote>\n<p>We\u2019re not doing it as much as we used to. You can be the change we need. (<em>From 2025<\/em>)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p>Read the article.<\/p>\n<p>The Friendship Paradox<\/p>\n<p><i>By Olga Khazan<\/i><\/p>\n<div>\n<blockquote>\n<p>We all want more time with our friends, but we\u2019re spending more time alone. (<em>From 2024<\/em>)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<p>Read the article.<\/p>\n<p><b>Still Curious?<\/b><\/p>\n<div>\n<ul>\n<li><b>The anti-social century<\/b><b>: <\/b>Americans are now spending more time alone than ever, Derek Thompson wrote last year. It\u2019s changing our personalities, our politics, and even our relationship to reality.<\/li>\n<li><b>The friend-group fallacy<\/b><b>:<\/b> Many people yearn for a crew, but having one is not actually the norm, Jenny Singer writes.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p><b>Other Diversions<\/b><\/p>\n<div>\n<ul>\n<li>The Americans shelling out five figures for a coat of arms<\/li>\n<li>The unglamorous truth about the average tradwife<\/li>\n<li>What to read to really understand music<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<p><b>PS<\/b><\/p>\n<p>My colleague Isabel Fattal recently asked readers to share a photo of something that sparks their sense of awe in the world. \u201cCamas in a Garry Oak Meadow in Victoria, British Columbia, Canada. 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